
Help
Abuse can take many forms, and it can happen to anyone. Abuse can be from a loved one, co-worker, friend, and from a perfect stranger. It can occur in many forms, such as physical, sexual, emotional, or verbal. Neglect can also be a form of abuse. When someone’s emotional and physical needs are left ignored, this is abuse. For example, the physical and emotional needs are not met for a child; it can leave permanent physical and emotional problems throughout their lives. Without proper food and love to grow, children who grow up without may have emotional and health issues.
Abuse in a family can happen to anyone, regardless of culture, religion or social standing in society. Sometimes parents abuse one another, which can be difficult for a child to watch. A child watching this act of violence can set the same pattern in their future. Parents may also abuse their children by neglect, physical, verbal or sexually. The illustration of “Help” was created to help bring awareness to the abuse that happens in families. This image was placed behind a window frame, where two of the frames are behind glass. The third frame has no glass, and the figure is reaching out to the viewer, silently asking for help. The viewer has two choices, they can shut the curtains and ignore the abuse that they are witnessing, or they can take the persons hand.
I strongly believe, that in breaking the silence of abuse, bringing out awareness to this growing epidemic and helping one another, that abuse can be stamped out. Abuse is like a virus that spreads from one generation to the next. If this virus is allowed to fester, it will infect future generations. These generations will become abusive in their families, or accept abuse from others. What can a person do to help a person that they know is being abused? The first thing abuser will do is alienate their victims, by doing this the abuser gains power. A person must not take heed and totally disappear from the victim’s life. Find away to be apart of that victims life, even if it is just conversing over a hedge from the neighbor’s house. What you say holds great importance to that person. Sometimes it takes more than a few words to help a person stuck in a violent situation, it may take police interaction, and preventive plans in order to save that persons life. Sometimes all it takes is to listen to someone, to change that person’s life forever. The most important thing of all is not to ignore abuse, by shutting the curtains. We are all responsible in stamping out this epidemic.